Be slow to avenge what is righteous, as truth is its own defense, less pride replace healing and truth is more tarnished by your deeds than theirs.  

Judge your feelings, notions, prejudice and conclusions before judging the motives of others. 

Ask the Holy Spirit to guide you as you take any step to redeem a brother who see things differently than you may. 

When correcting a believer, be cautious but not fearful, be kind but be clear,  come with a redemptive heart, striving not to injury but to heal. 

Consider the effect of your actions on those who may be innocent who surround the offending one with their love as well. 

Be sure the splinter in your brother’s eye has not blur your vision as well.